Friendships can be very difficult to begin and maintain in this fast-paced, hectic world. We are often just too busy, but sometimes we lack the confidence and self-esteem we need to begin a new friendship or have a productive conversation with a current friend. Certain crystals will help you work through disagreements in a calm, level-headed state of mind and strengthen the bonds of a long-time friendship. They can also bolster your confidence and self-esteem to help you start a new friendship.
CRYSTALS FOR FRIENDSHIP AND HEALING CONFLICT
Use crystals to encourage good communication. You can – t make new friends or maintain a healthy friendship if you can – t talk to each other. Gemstones that encourage confidence and truthful yet respectful communication will help you make new friends. They will also help with healing conflicts you may have with your current friends.
Blue agate gemstones are excellent for beginning new friendships or maintaining old friendships. Any type of blue agate will put you in a positive state of mind. It will calm you and improve your mood so you can be a more upbeat person who is fun to be around. If you have to work through some sort of unresolved issue with your friend, blue agate will help you communicate with confidence and compassion.
Beautiful blue lapis lazuli is excellent for improved communications between friends. This gemstone encourages honest, well-thought-out communication. It will make it easier to speak from the heart, with compassion and understanding. Lapis lazuli also has the ability to give you a deep self-awareness that can help you see where you might be able to improve in order to be a better friend.
Crystals that boost your confidence and self-esteem will help you make new friends and keep old friends. You must have confidence to communicate with new people to make friends. If you don – t have the confidence to have a conversation with someone new, you will find it very difficult to make a new friend. Having a healthy self-esteem is also integral to working through issues and maintaining a healthy relationship with your current friends.
Lovely labradorite dispels insecurity and fear. It will encourage confidence and help you have faith in yourself. When you doubt your own judgement, you can – t be confident. Blue labradorite is especially useful when you need a more balanced outlook, flexibility and a calm, relaxed state of mind. Dark blue labradorite facilitates healthy communication.
Green malachite is an excellent gemstone for confidence and friendships. This gemstone absorbs negative energy, whether it originates from you or your friend. It also imparts the supportiveness and empathy that every friend needs from time to time. Malachite makes communication easier, too.
MOTIVATION AND A POSITIVE OUTLOOK
Using crystals for a motivated, positive attitude will help you make new friends and keep old friendships energized. You will be more fun to be around, which can be indispensable if your friend is going through hard times.
Orange carnelian dispels negative, destructive emotions like anxiety, jealousy and negativity in general. It is a very positive, uplifting, motivational crystal that will always improve your mood. This orange gemstone also keeps your emotions balanced for a healthy, joyful outlook on life.
Orange agate gemstones are very motivational and support a happy, positive outlook. Orange crazy lace agate, orange Laguna lace agate and orange fire agate are all very uplifting crystals that encourage confidence and enthusiasm. Fire agates are especially good for eradicating fears that can make it difficult to make new friends.